Growing up in the culturally rich yet rigid Madhesi society of Nepal, my childhood was filled with limitations. Girls were expected to be quiet and reserved. I wasn't allowed to learn how to ride a bicycle, laugh loudly, play with friends, run, or jump. These simple joys were considered inappropriate for a girl in our so-called high caste community, where traditions placed strict boundaries on female freedom and expression.
However, my story is one of transformation through the power of education. Education became my beacon of hope and my tool for change. Through learning, I found my voice, my strength, and my ability to dream beyond the limits of societal expectations.
The Power of Education
Education opened doors that were once firmly shut. It allowed me to explore worlds beyond my immediate surroundings, to question and to challenge the status quo. With each book I read and each lesson I learned, I felt a shift within me. I began to see the potential for a life not just confined by tradition but enriched by knowledge and understanding.
The empowerment I gained through education was not just personal but transformative. It gave me the confidence to stand up for myself and for others. I became a beacon of hope for other girls in Madhes, showing them that change is possible, and that they too can aspire to greater heights.
Becoming an Inspiration
My journey from a constrained childhood to an empowered woman has inspired many in my community. I started initiatives to encourage girls to pursue education and to dream beyond societal limitations. By leading a school in Madhes and conducting workshops, mentoring, and advocacy through opinion writing, I worked to break down the barriers that had once held me back.
Until a few months ago, I was leading a school in Madhes, and I observed that girls who once had no hope now see possibilities. They learn to ride bicycles, laugh freely, play, run, and jump. They embrace education with the belief that it will lead them to a brighter future. The ripple effect of one empowered individual empowering others has begun to change the fabric of our society.
A Call to Action
"Be Empowered, Do Empower" is not just a slogan; it's a call to action. It's a reminder that the journey of empowerment is continuous and collective. When we educate ourselves, we gain the power to transform not just our own lives but the lives of those around us. By sharing our knowledge and strength, we create a more inclusive, equitable, and vibrant society.
Education is the key to breaking free from the shackles of restrictive norms. It is the path to empowerment, the foundation for a future where every girl can live to her fullest potential. Let's continue to support and advocate for education for all, ensuring that every child, regardless of their background, has the opportunity to be empowered and to empower others.
Together, we can create a world where the laughter of girls rings loud and clear, where they run freely towards their dreams, and where they are celebrated for their achievements. Let's embrace education and empowerment, transforming our society.
Bina Jha
School Director, Kopila Valley School
Thank You! Bina Madam for sharing such a wonderful article.